Two Sides to Every Coin
As I delve more and more into the public realm, I realize that every issue has a point and a counterpoint (remember the Jane Curtin/Dan Akroyd skit?). To misquote/paraphrase from the Dark Knight, eventually you are the hero long enough to become the goat. As I listen to the rhetoric, it has become apparent that this is a serious generational issue facing us in November. America First vs Global Equality; Drilling More vs Renewable Energy; Not Stopping for Directions vs GPS Systems; Debt vs Balanced Budgets; Ensure vs Organic. It seems like the last two generations of power is fighting tooth and nail to retain it. At what cost?
I sat in on several conference calls with my congressman and local constituents. Each caller who participated identified themselves as not having kids in school anymore, and many of which were retired. They were concerned about energy prices, housing prices, and property taxes. Not one of them was concerned about the greater global good or even the local good. It's understandable for someone on a fixed income to be concerned. However, in return, my congressman responded by blaming the other party for blocking legislation that would theoretically have solved their problems. He left out the parts about potentially planning for the future, either by purchasing a more fuel-efficient car, living in a smaller house, or by saving more. When things are good, no one complains. Few seem to plan ahead. Anyone saying that they can lower taxes should be forced to take a lie-detector test. There's too much infrastructure in need of repair.
We have freedom in the United States. One of my favorite quotes comes from Matt Taibbi's book "The Great Derangement," regarding President Bush's famous "They hate us for our freedom" quote. We are not hated for our freedom, we are scoffed at because of what we do with it. We invade and occupy a sovereign nation and then threaten other countries that do similar. We pollute the environment and then won't sign environmental treaties with other developing countries following similar paths. We complain about our kids not getting into Ivy league schools when some kids don't even have schools to attend. We spend hundreds of millions of dollars a year to not let Americans die, yet elsewhere, life seems disposable. We serve more food at a kid's birthday party than many families eat in a year.
Recently, my wife and I were out to dinner with friends. One of the topics was how an acquaintance, who had a stroke, was divorcing his wife, after so many years of taking care of him (Hey, Lance Armstrong did it). It seemed ironic, and the usual sarcastic quips flew. Trying not to squash the fun, I did bring up the concept that maybe the husband didn't want his family to see him in such a light. As someone who had been through months of physical tribulation, I can tell you first hand that if I were to have a setback once again, I would not want my family to see me deteriorate. That's not how I want to be remembered.
Again, two sides to every coin.
